True love begins with self love and authentic love for life. Many relationships are dissatisfying or will start off perfect and then deteriorate because one or both people have certain expectations, the love is conditional, they become attached or are pursuing the relationship to fill voids. What you want you must become therefore become a being full of genuine happiness and love. That’s when you can have fun and let all the amazing relationships come to you since outside circumstances will not tarnish your inner happiness.